“Is phone sex something you might be interested in testing out together?”.If you aren’t physically with the other person, you might bring it up with: If it’s being able to speak sexily, you might start by sexting. If it’s the lack of visual, you might try a video call instead. If their answer is “maybe” and they seem nervous or hesitant, you might ask what it is about having phone sex that they’re unsure of. It’s not something I’ve had before but might be interested in trying if you are. “My friend was just telling me she and her partner have phone sex.I was thinking it might be fun to try phone sex before we see each other again.” “I know I’m not going to see you for a few days after this.“When you’re in a relaxed environment, put the idea out there and see how they respond to it,” says Story.
